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hot and cold. why is she so confused? Unhappy posted: 02/27/05 at 2:12 PM

cleanmarine  [more]
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so katie is this girl who i really like. as a matter of fact i think i am in love with her. and i don't believe in saying love to anyone. you really have to know them. anyways, she i think is confused about what to do with me. she knows that i like her. when we are alone, she kisses me, and cuddles and its as if she really likes me. but when we are with a few friends, she becomes this totally different person who seems to almost hate me. it is tearing me up inside. i don't understand. she has told me that i am her best friend, that i mean more to her than i know, and that she really likes me. so if i am all those things to her, why is she two people around me. please help i can't take this hot and cold stuff anymore. should i continue to be as i am now. where i would do anything for her, anything to make her happy. or should i pursue other people even though i don't want anyone else besides her. help!

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posted: 02/27/05 at 2:20 PM

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I think you need to talk to her and ask her why she is like that and what does she want. I think you being straightforward with her next time you guys are alone will be the only way to know whats going on.

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posted: 02/27/05 at 10:44 PM

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On some level, she isn't comfortable letting people see you as the main guy? Or, she would treat you well in both settings. Be very careful, with someone like this...this could mean that she is interested in someone else and why she turns you away at that time. Again, she wouldn't change her attitude towards you regardless of who was around. She may be using you for the private times, while she is still unsure of other issues or another person.

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posted: 02/27/05 at 10:46 PM

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Me again, sorry, I didn't mean to assume you were a guy...but regardless, someone that cares about you, would not change because the circumstances do.

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