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posted: 05/28/12 at 6:56 PM

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The truth is in this case you have just two choices because what will happen will happen. It is either you give yourself peace of mind, or you worry yourself to death. If he will cheat,he will cheat either you worry or not! And if you worry too much it will affect your health. If i were you,when he was texting and smiling and its unusual i would have been like 'baby why are you smiling' did you win å jackpot, you should have cracked å joke out of it. Yea i take my phone to the toilet,yea i smile when i text it doesn't mean any thing.
So baby,try to put your mind to rest it would really help you. Now and in the nearest future when you are married. So you won't end up with hypertension. Its not worth it!

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posted: 05/28/12 at 9:55 PM
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I think if it were a girl he was interested in unless he is totally not intereste din you....(his ex or anyone else) he would have not been so blatant- would have called her or texted her later.
I do when he gets back from a trip and is on the phone it is disrespectful to you- shouldn't he be fociused on you...-

I just find that sooooo darn rude-am I alone in this? I am sick of everyone texting all the time-Come on, we need to turn off the phones and just enjoy each other ....I'd ask him "ohhh baby that sounds interesting" (as he smiles to himself-"anything you'd care to share?" You are his gf after all-

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posted: 05/28/12 at 10:21 PM

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I just find that sooooo darn rude-am I alone in this? I am sick of everyone texting all the time-Come on, we need to turn off the phones and just enjoy each other

I know what you mean, but times are changing. I am in the same generation as baby07 and her b/f. So I get the texting thing. I thought our generation was bad until I lived with my sister who is 9 year younger. HOLY CRAP! The texting is even worse. If you have grown up never having a landline, and only a cell phone like I have, you can understand why the guy would bring his phone to the bathroom, or answer a quick text before going into a restaurant. Everything is instant now.

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posted: 05/29/12 at 1:37 AM
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I'm with Jennifer with this one. I wanted to ask but I didn't want to be so nosy..he was paying attention to me but also it was the time where everyone was getting ready to go to this party and he was texting one of his friends what we were wearing since there was a black/white dress code. It could be totally harmless, it's just these kind of things bother me especially when he emphazises he dislikes texting.

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posted: 05/29/12 at 2:02 AM

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If he were always texting that'd be one thing, but if it was just a text or two here and there then I don't think it's a big deal.

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posted: 05/29/12 at 8:06 AM

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I don't really think the issue is in the texting, its the fact that baby reads meaning to her bf every act! I don't think that's fair. It won't get her any wher

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posted: 05/29/12 at 8:57 AM

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That's true tomie. Texting wasn't the issue, the issue was baby looking for reasons to find fault and confirm her misguided belief that all men will screw her over.

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