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posted: 07/17/12 at 8:44 PM
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Oh I am so sorry. is there a way that someone else can help facilitate the conversation with your mum and dad and how important it would be to have him come see you-

If your mum and dad knew he was someone who shared some form of interest with you or was wanting to come and visit you (for any reason) and they would gradually warm to him as you have-

Meaning not to make it a big deal sort of thing, as if he is your soul mate but just as a friend- someone with whom you have struck up a friendship with. Would that work? as any parent is protective and I am sure they don't want to see you hurt.
Do you have someone whom they trust, like a family friend who could pave the way for you-
As I think it would do amazing things to have him be around you. Love, they say, is the most healing thing in the world. If he is as great as you feel he is.
I can't see why they wouldn't want that for you.

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posted: 07/19/12 at 1:10 AM

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You need to let them know that even though you are aware of yourself you STILL need companionship like any other woman. AND the ability to have these desires that couples do.
Remind them that you ARE a woman. And this is just a date.
Perhaps it might come across better if they know you are not going to be completely alone with him.
Could you arrange a girl friend to join you for a double date?

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posted: 10/10/12 at 2:01 PM
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Hi everyone, im sorry i havent posted on here for a while. A few weeks ago i met my boyfriend in secret and it was the most bestest day of my life so far. He was and is everything i thought he would be and soooooooo much more. I was sooooooo sad when we had to part. We sooooooo want to see and be with each other again. We cant keep meeting in secret though. No one saw us which was a good thing, not that im aware of anyway. I still need help on telling my parents, theres no way im saying we have already met as ill be in big big troulble. Please help me

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