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Squirted?
Yes, and it's the best thing I've ever felt
Yes, and I prefer other forms of orgasm (too messy or not my cup O tea)
No, never even tried / didn't know about it
No, I have tried and/or had someone try on me, and I stopped/made them stop right away.
It's just not actually possible in my opinion
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posted: 06/23/12 at 9:57 PM

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I am answering the questions to the OP not to you Gail, why are you quoting my comments?

For me, it is a myth to think women cannot orgasm through g-spot stimulation bcos Some can.

Oh, I NEVER say every woman have a g-spot or the g-spot is the best orgasm for all women, I know it isn't for you but it is for me.I know my body better than anyone else.G-spot orgasm feels better for me.

My comment is WHAT I FEEL and have experienced.

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posted: 06/23/12 at 10:05 PM

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I quoted you so to show the OP that women are different. You are a certain way, I am a certain way.....he should not look at porn and assume all women are like what he sees in there.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 3:24 PM
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I asked my wife and answered accordingly.

She likes the feeling of her orgasm when squirting a lot. It is not the stuff you see in porn for her where it looks like she is peeing....she just gets a LOT wetter.
She will usually squirt with oral and sometimes while riding on top. I try to keep the pressure on her g spot equal to the pressure on her clitoris when doing oral. This seems to be right for HER.
Wildsnke88.....my wife has orgasmed 12x once in a session of about an hour. In contrast I didnt make her have one orgasm for the first 5 years we dated as teenagers.

The most important message (in my experience) in this entire thread is what Blondgrrl capitalized...COMMUNICATION. Nobody knows more about what you like than you do and you must be willing to tell and show your partner. If you don't really know what you like than start touching and probing your own body and find out. great sex is so easy if you just COMMUNICATE. I can give a real world example from my own experience if anyone is interested.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 6:33 PM

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Originally posted by cablebandit

Wildsnke88.....my wife has orgasmed 12x once in a session of about an hour. In contrast I didnt make her have one orgasm for the first 5 years we dated as teenagers.




@ Cablebandit - Yeah! thats what i did said in my post earlier that it could be possible.Well, in fact.. ANYTHING is possible just like G-spot orgasms for some women..

Most women (my close girlfriends) i know cannot climax over 10x per session and for me, after i had 3-4 BIG ones in a session, i would have 'passed' out on the spot and i wouldn't be able to continue further.

Your wife is indeed a very lucky woman.

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posted: 06/25/12 at 3:16 AM
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I dunno if she is lucky. She didnt have an orgasm until she was 25 and was pretty experienced by that time. We look at it now as making up for that past....a past that i was also a part of. Normal for her is 4-6 orgasm and the difference? the only real difference is our communication. It's unfortunate that people arent taught how to have a dialogue about sex. Instead all we get is porn that teaches us all men should be at least 10" and all women should be able to squirt like a fire hose when having anal sex with no other stimulation.

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posted: 06/26/12 at 4:20 AM

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I only ever squirted once, from his fingers, and I didn't even notice. He told me about it right after it happened. It didn't feel any different to me.

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posted: 07/31/12 at 10:37 PM
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1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

I honestly would have to answer both on this. It is very enjoyable but its almost uncomfortable to have to hold it back.

2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers

For me its only ever happened during penile penetration and its all about the angle. It's all about the angle and it has to be just right. If it doesn't stay that way, it's easy to lose it fast.

3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.

The only way I will squirt is if there is mutual stimulation. I can never squirt with just straight on c*ck regardless of whether or not your hitting my g spot.

4. Does it hurt?

I have never had it hurt. If your doing it right it shouldn't hurt.

5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?

I enjoy it but unfortunately it's one of those things that men can seldom find repeatedly.

6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?

There really is no way to be inconspicuous about it. Sometimes if your diving deep and angled just right you might be able to hit your woman's g spot but as others have posted you shouldn't be doing this without first communicating it with her.

7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other orgasm type, ie. clitoral? I have heard that it is a "full body" orgasm, true/false?

Again, I can not get an orgasm without clitoral stimulation, however I will say that if you can manage to hit the g spot in addition to my clit that you are likely to get a full body orgasm, however I have gotten pretty close to fully body orgasms without the g spot as well.

My selling point to you~~~~the g spot is not all its cracked up to be, for all women anyway! Do I enjoy it yes but mind blowing sex still takes place without it!

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It is the absolute most incredible pleasure my husband and I have yet to experience! The first time it happened I was unsure about the wet bed ,, but He loved it when I sprayed all over his balls! We do it atleast once a day!

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Originally posted by Gail65
The G-spot is a myth for women incapable of having clitoris orgasms. Gives them hope that there is something else to look for. Following a British study in 2009 it was concluded its existence is unproven.

The female has a gland that would equal to the male prostate, Skene's gland. The squirting may come from that gland when being rubbed but there is no sexual enjoyment coming from that grand.

I find it SO annoying when I have a new partner and he thinks he's a specialist at finding the G spot and he can make women squirt, etc. as if that made him the king of the hill. It's more for his own ego than anything else.



The so-called g-spot and the clitoris are connected. The g-spot is really the internal clitoris: http://susiebright.blogs.com/susie_...looks-like.html

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posted: 08/06/12 at 4:26 AM
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easymoney: I was being sarcastic a little Some women will say they have a G spot and will squirt and enjoy it. Many many many women don't. If the G spot is where everyone says it is then I do not enjoy it, makes me want to pee.

Just like some people like to be touched in certain places and others don't. That G spot is not for everyone. I don't think there is some kind of mind-blowing orgasm hidden in there for everyone.

BrownThing: Porn is really not the place for you to get sex references. If it were then I should expect every man I meet to have a huge penis that can go non stop for 2 hours, right.



It's supposed to feel like you're going to pee. You have to just go with it and let go with what you think is peeing, that's squirting. It comes out the same way. I can relate to feeling a bit uncomfortable with it, it's somewhat weird for guys the first time we ejaculate too. Like what the **** was that. For women it's gotta be even weirder the first time since what you ejaculate is pure liquid. But go with it and embrace it. I see that you like to do some male bashing in your posts. Well you could look at it like this, coming at it from the anti-male angle: why should guys be the only ones to enjoy ejaculation?

And porn is a broad term that simply means any sexual act that's recorded. There are commercial porn movies that have fake squirting in them but there are also a few instructional, non-fiction videos that depict real squirting. Like this: http://xhamster.com/movies/1242020/...her_squirt.html

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