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broke up and feeling lonely posted: 10/26/09 at 9:54 AM
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So been in a 4 years of relationship online and lately been fighting alot with my bf because we feel distant and things arent working out.
last day we had a big fight (over something very minor) and he broke up with me, I begged him to talk to me and kept crying and he wouldnt answer, then I started cursing and he still didnt answer finally he said he is deleting his accounts so I wont bother him
He always been nice to me and he is the one I've grown up with. and I feel too weak to go on without him
and I know he will come back but I begged and cried too much I feel totally broken now and he just wont listen to me.
I dont know why he seemed to be picking fights so I leave him alone, but I tried to change for better for him, I even send him messages when I will be late at work, or go with friends so he doesnt worry. and I wake up early at morning so we can talk before I leave to work
and its been hard to breathe..I feel like I wont find someone who will understand me..after four years of a relationship I feel like I dont want to know anyone nor meet anyone . and maybe its online but it meants alot to me.
am I being silly? Is it over? shall I move on?
Last edited by nightshades on 10/26/09 at 10:15 AM
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posted: 11/07/09 at 1:17 AM
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Move on...doesnt seem he's interested in maintaing the relationship any longer....get bk into the social scene....so many different ppl are out there....
Never let anyone feel you cnt live without them because you can...once you have life you have hope....focus on the positive and not the negative.
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posted: 11/13/09 at 9:34 AM
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Take a moment to reconcile your failed relationship. Grieve it. Put it to rest and move on. If your ex is saying he's gonna delete his account so you can't bother him. Take the obvious hint that he doesn't want to be bother.
No matter how much it hurts, you can live without your ex. You did it many years over before you met him.
The only way you grow is to continue to move forward in your life. A little cliche ... time heals all wounds. It is tru. Good luck
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Became friends..Nov. '04
Started dating...Jan. '05
Met in real life....May '05
Promise Rings...June '05
Spent the month together...July '05
Move-In Date...Aug '05 (officially)
Moved to a new State with him...Aug '06
When I broke up with him...Oct/Nov '06
2007 - SINGLE & HAPPY ABOUT IT!! 
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posted: 11/14/09 at 8:27 AM
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Aw hun I'm sorry. Break ups are never easy. 4 years is no drop in the pond either. I think the best thing you can do is to let him be and move on, cease the contact and focus on yourself. Look to your friends for support, and do as many social things as you can to keep your mind off him.
I know it's hard. I've come to the point of realising (not soon enough) that the longer you continue to hold on to them, through being in contact, the longer it takes to move on because each time you speak to him all the hurt and pain just comes back, and you're at square one again. Write down all the things you didn't like about him and read it when you feel tempted to talk to him.
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"Since ancient times, the dragon has been the only beast to equal the tiger. Even if you're not by my side right now, I will leap through space and time and always be by your side. These feelings will never change."
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