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Alternatives to sex posted: 09/07/12 at 6:26 PM
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I've got an infection 'down there' and am on medication for it for two weeks starting today, and I have already been taking similar medication for a week. During this time, having sex is not a good idea. I don't want my bf to have to suffer during that time, so I'm looking for fun alternatives - all I can think of is of course going down on him and perhaps anal sex, since we wanted to start introducing that anyway. Anyone got any good ideas that focus on him, and not on me? 
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posted: 09/07/12 at 7:08 PM
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Funny enough, I'm facing a similar problem: Lately my sex drive has disappeared and I have lost all interest in sex and everything sex related. Some of the ideas I've used:
Oral sex is obviously a good option.
Sometimes I give my boyfriend a hand job using lots of lube - I guess it can't be as fun as sex, but he seems to like it.
I also lay beside him and he'll masturbate while I touch his balls or his nipples and maybe talk dirty a bit.
We've been thinking about trying... I'm not sure what it's called, but having me lie back while he thrusts between my breasts.
I have toys that I use on him, for anal play and also a plastic sleeve that I use to masturbate him with.
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posted: 09/10/12 at 9:36 PM
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| All of brokenstar's suggestions are great. In fact, being a man in a relationship where my wife has absolutely NO interest in me whatsoever, I WISH my wife would do some of those things. But alas, my life totally effing sucks.
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Weeping, despairing
Numbness replacing pain.
Surrendering, submitting
All else is in vain.
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