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posted: 05/27/12 at 2:50 AM
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Demonic? What evidence do you have that demons even exist?
As a kinkster myself, I can tell you that submission is never forced- it's a gift given freely by the sub.
BDSM sex is no different from other kinds of sex. It can be about love, or it can be just for getting off. Personally, I don't play with anyone I don't have feelings for. As the song says, "I only hurt the ones I love". 
FYI, this particular poster is a fake. He's just fantasizing. What he says happened never happened. I know because this is a common fantasy among submissives.
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~My opinions change with new information.~
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posted: 06/17/12 at 5:49 PM
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| was recently talking to an online friend and got creeped out by noticing they are in BD groups and says they are not into SM and i was thinking what kind of person is this. sorry if i am being prejudice. I got creeped out because they liked certain dominant photos of bondage with women tied up and it made me feel creepy. the guy is someone i've known online since 15 but magically never showed a real pic says he texts doesn't do phone calls.. WEIRD i found him on Facebook few months ago
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posted: 06/17/12 at 10:56 PM
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You ARE being prejudiced.
FYI, I've been into BDSM for quite some time. I'm a dominant, and have been in a few relationships with submissive guys. The people who are into BDSM are perfectly normal, everyday people- police officers, teachers, firefighters, and I know a couple of psychologists! LOL. BDSM is really just games for grownups with your pants off.
Bondage is very sexy to many different kinds of people, and it doesn't necessarily mean there is anything creepy about the guy. Obviously, there are bad apples in EVERY social group in society, and that includes BDSM. However, to dismiss someone as "creepy" simply because they like bondage and you don't is very closed-minded and prejudiced. You shouldn't judge people solely by their sexuality.
You don't have to like the same things sexually in order to be friends with someone, do you? I mean, if you're friend told you she likes facials, and you don't like facials, then would you be creeped out and stop being friends? Sorry, but what someone likes sexually has little or nothing to do with what they are like in everyday life. LOL- I'll bet you a million bucks that you have at least ONE friend that likes to be dominated in bed. She just won't talk about it, since people tend to be ashamed of their sexual desires, most especially when they are out of the "norm".
Finally, this poster- I've said it many times already but people keep missing it- is playing out a fantasy here. I have seen it a million times with subs. They enjoy the IDEA of being "forced" to do horrible, disgusting things that aren't actually possible in real life. If this really happened to him, he would NOT like it. I recognized right away that he was only story telling, precisely because of how extreme it is.
And just FYI, scat is who 'nother subset of BDSM. It's actually very rare. It's in the subset of "edge play" because it's dangerous. The people who are into it do not come onto message boards like this- they stay on BDSM sites so that they can talk to other people who understand them. They don't have interest in vanilla sites like this one because no one here has ANY experience and cannot actually advise them on anything.
This guy came here with his fantasy because he KNEW it would shock people, and all the time he was getting off on that. It's better not to feed these trolls. If he comes back, which I doubt he will, just ignore him and he'll go away.
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