I had 4 relationships. 1st for 6 months then for 2 years then again for 2 years or so. Then the last one in 1997 till today. My exes did with me quite good, but I was never forced to give a blow job and I never asked them to lick me. I am a doctor so I kind a did not like any oral. When I met my current one I was 27 and he was 23. When we got physical 3rd time he tried oral on me. I did not want though but I liked it. Then I thought it was good but I can live without it as I may have to reciprocate it. So I did not encourage my BF. I think he was little disappointed. But he is very intelligent. In the house I used to keep things clean, clothes and stuff also very clean. So one day he asked me he wants to take shower with me and shave me too. I said ok let’s try! He gave me a very comfortable shave and then he started shaving and asked me to help him too. I liked it as it was getting smooth and clean. After the shave and rinses I kissed it many times and felt it very smooth like a baby skin. My skin was very smooth too as he used a 3 blade razor. When we got out of the shower he brushed his teeth and asked me to do so as well. When we dried ourselves and going here and there in the house he started caressing my soft and smooth skin there. I also touched him and it felt great and exciting. While I was thinking of sucking him, he started licking my boobies and soon started licking me. It was very enjoyable. At that point I was very sure in my mind that I am going to suck him. When I got the chance I sucked him for the first time in my life and it felt so good and refreshing smooth. Since then our start point is I suck him first when I see him arousing, then he sucks my breasts and then my vagina. I cum many times before we put in. it is now almost 15 years and we shave every weekend night. I made him shave his face in the nights only too. His tongue goes almost like 2 inches inside and I try and squeezing it too. It always makes us feel like 18. But after couple of orgasms I feel like a deep penetration urge we do many positions but we enjoy only few. Intercourse is like bread and butter and oral is like fruits.
I would have to say oral. My current BF is the best. I had enjoyed it in the past with other partners, but they never took it to completion. Now my current BF has taken it all the way.
He gets more out of watching me get pleasure then getting his own pleasure.
I enjoy giving him oral to, so I think both of us would choose oral, then we can both get off.
There is just something a tongue can do that a c*ck cannot however there is nothing better than feeling a man deep inside you and feeling him release. I could never give up intercourse. I might miss the oral, but I lust for the thrust!