I have a fantasy that I am sleeping and my husband begins to fondle me and slips his hands between my thighs .. while I am sleeping I begin to get really wet and he slips in between my legs and begins licking and sucking and I awake to a huge orgasm! Then it's my turn to pleasure him.
Not always true about how she is feeling down there.. I am not one to enjoy oral sex as much as my bf but on rare occasions i might want him to go down it all depends on the mood i'm in... I wouldn't worry to much if she's not to into it just let it be OR you can try to play with her first get her going get her hot then go down on her as she's starting to get wet... Works great ;P for some people...