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posted: 07/04/12 at 11:59 PM

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Hmmm..I think some people 'thought' I only eat healthy food and nothing else, lol..well, that's not true, so just to add, I do take junk food too and my profile says, I love chocolates!..mmmm..I'm crazy about chocolates and ice-cream too..I take fast food too, sometime I love some french fries, a burger, pizza and kentucky fried chicken but I just don't take them often..I love snacks/tibits and some days I watch cartoon with my 9yo daughter munching chips, Orea cookies and drinking soda..of course once awhile are fine, but I don't make it a weekly habit and i just don't like a person who keeps eating unhealthy food and never exercise at all.

My hubby is a foodie and he loves driving me around the city checking out new restaurants..he used to be a cook in a Chinese restaurant so I can understand why he love food, he is a meat eater and sometime he overeat so I do not want him to become too overweight.He is 10 pound overweight though everyone thinks he look 'trim' and fit.lol.

Exercise is part of my daily routine..so it isn't a chore to me and I feel great after a nice work out..I love that feeling.

I do remember that when I was single and younger, I don't really care so much about eating healthy and keeping fit though I still maintain my weight/figure becos of my modelling job but as I grow older, got married, have kids and have my own family..my views change and I see the importance of keeping fit and having a healthy lifestyle..I want to watch my kids grow up and set good examples for them so yes, that's important for me and I am responsible for my own health and for the sake of my family too.

Call me a vainpot I don't care..lol, bcos I love looking good,wearing my favorite dresses and feeling good everyday and it has so much health benefit being physically fit,keeping in shape, eating wisely and staying healthy. and not many people can guess that I'm a mother of 2.hehe!

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posted: 07/05/12 at 12:03 AM

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Hmmm..I think some people 'thought' I only eat healthy food and nothing else, lol.

People always think I am on diet here coz when I go to restaurant and I order say Chicken burger,I always just eat the chicken and drop the buns to my husband's tray and for the side,I always substitute french fries with either the soup or Green beans. if they don't have the veggies then I just have the chicken sandwich.

It's just weird to eat chicken on a bun lol. We don't eat our chicken like that in Indo I guess lol. also doesn't help I LOVE veggies so I take veggies over anything.

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posted: 07/05/12 at 12:25 AM

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Yeah riri..I'm not a big eater but I appreciate good food..sometime people think I'm dieting bcos I eat very little but actually, i eat anything, everything I want but in moderation and I don't overeat and oh yes, I love my veggie and salad any day.

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posted: 07/05/12 at 1:03 AM
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I don't think it's shallow.

Fitness and health are important to you, I think it would only make sense to find someone to share that with. You're setting yourself for incompatibility if you start a relationship with a couch potato. It only makes sense to seek someone with common interests.

As far as the physical goes, everyone's idea of attractive is different. My husband was a size 32 when I met him, he's still roughly the same. I have had two kids, ballooned up and shrunk back down twice. He's loved me (and been attracted to me) through all my sizes. If he suddenly gained 50lbs, I'd still love him the same, I'd still want him. Had he been 50lbs. heavier 10 years ago, who knows if I would have found him attractive then. You can't be attracted to what you don't find attractive, that's not shallow. Making someone feel bad about the way they look is shallow, calling names, degrading, judging, that's shallow. Having an idea in mind of the sort of person that you'd like to be with is perfectly normal.

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