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posted: 05/30/12 at 9:08 PM
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| Baby, I know exactly how you feel. My husband is just like your boyfriend. He is not verbal at all about his feelings during sex unless I pry it out of him. He won't tell me what feels good, but if I ask him if a particular thing feels good, he'll say yes. He doesn't compliment me unless I tell him to (I tell him how sexy and cute he is first, then I'll tell him to tell me something he likes about me). Then he'll say I'm beautiful. If I ask him what he's thinking, he'll say every time "I love you." Those are all good things, but since I have to force them out of him, and since they're always the same answers, they're not very exciting to hear. I haven't figured out a way to get him to be more expressive, but I kind of just accept that's the way he is. I know he loves me, since he shows me in other ways. When you've been with your boyfriend longer you might have a stronger sense of feeling loved. Is your boyfriend initiating sex? If so, that's a good sign that he does desire you.
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posted: 05/31/12 at 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by AnnaKate
Baby, I know exactly how you feel. My husband is just like your boyfriend. He is not verbal at all about his feelings during sex unless I pry it out of him. He won't tell me what feels good, but if I ask him if a particular thing feels good, he'll say yes. He doesn't compliment me unless I tell him to (I tell him how sexy and cute he is first, then I'll tell him to tell me something he likes about me). Then he'll say I'm beautiful. If I ask him what he's thinking, he'll say every time "I love you." Those are all good things, but since I have to force them out of him, and since they're always the same answers, they're not very exciting to hear. I haven't figured out a way to get him to be more expressive, but I kind of just accept that's the way he is. I know he loves me, since he shows me in other ways. When you've been with your boyfriend longer you might have a stronger sense of feeling loved. Is your boyfriend initiating sex? If so, that's a good sign that he does desire you.
I'm not sure I can put up with it like you. I am trying to change his approach early in the relationship so that as time goes on he'll make it a good habit for us to work.
He initatites sex and he said just stares and touching is good indication of a loving affection but I said for me it's not enough...he said he'll try and he started to do. Just not sure how long that's going to lastl
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