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posted: 10/02/09 at 11:10 PM
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What is the purpose of kissing?
Is it to feel sexual? Then those who want casual sex would kiss on their first hook-up.
Is it to express affection or love? Then some would kiss after they feel those feelings. But some might see it differently. I knew one couple who waited until their wedding day to kiss. They got a standing ovation.
Whenever you do it it should be consistent with your values. My personal recommendation would be to not kiss before the level of commitment is commensurate with sharing a kiss and all that goes with it.
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posted: 10/04/09 at 7:00 AM
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Assuming that I *like* the guy - I usually Wait til the 3rd/4th date. With my current love, We first kissed on our 4th date.  It wasnt a overbearing kiss but, a sweet slow kiss.
Age does matter, he is 30 and im 28... if your 18 or younger id hang out/hold hands/etc til the moment was right - do not worry what "number" date it is
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posted: 10/17/09 at 3:36 AM
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I started seeing a new guy a few weeks ago and our first kiss was last Saturday night, at the end of the fourth date. For us, I would say it was perfect timing. It was very spontaneous on his part and I liked it. It was at the end of the evening, after leaving the restaurant and getting into his car. He just leaned over and said, "I feel like kissing you," and did! It was a sweet, affectionate type of kiss and not slobbering. It was perfect.
I also think that with my previous relationship that lasted several years, our first kiss was also on the 4th, or possibly 3rd date. But we went from A to Z on that date because we had known each other for about 5 months as friends so the feelings were already very strong and there seemed to be no reason to wait. After that we were "together", there was never any doubt or game-playing and we lived together eventually. We are still friends despite ending our romantic relationship.
So...from my experience I would say, 4th date. But obviously, everyone is different and every relationship is different. I don't really know if age, per se, is that relevant. I think it's more the people involved, their attitudes and respective relationship behavior. If anything, I am much more conservative now at age 50, in terms of taking things slow, than when I was 25, because I've been there and done that and no longer "curious". Also, I've learned from my experiences and take a very different approach to dating at this point in my life.
Then again, someone my age who was married very young, never dated anyone but their first husband, might want to experiment and might be very curious. So you just never know.
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