A collection of love, romance and relationships resources including advice, poetry, quotes, dedications, chat, horoscopes, romantic ideas, message boards, free love postcards and much more!!
What's New Today on LYC...
Monthly Romance Calendar
Forum Quick Links:   Forum Home   |   My Home Page   |   My Inbox   |   My Calendar   |   Find Members   |   FAQ   |   Terms  
Popular Forums:   LYC Chat   |   Love Advice   |   Sexually Speaking   |   Military Spouses   |   Online Romance   |   Ask A Male   |   LDR   |   Holidays  
Lovingyou.com > Pillow Talk > Fantasies/Stories > Watching my wife masturbate
Watching my wife masturbate posted: 04/06/04 at 4:46 AM
JackBlue  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 54
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
The thought of watching my wife pleasure herself makes my blood boil. Although she will massege her breasts and occasionally finger her clitoris during lovemaking, I want more.

How do I encourage my wife to masturbate as part of foreplay? She has some old Catholic hangups regarding self pleasure and will not let herself cut loose. The instances during which she has self stimulated have been when she is extremely hot and totally loses heself in the moment.

Should I suggest some mutual masturbation as encouragement?

Anyone have some insight on this?

----------
Live, love and laugh!

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/06/04 at 5:50 PM
oldkinky  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 583
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Mar 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
We put on a porno and then we each masterbate (not usually to orgasm) as part of our foreplay while watching the porno. We use toys sometimes while we masterbate. Occasionally we will cum while we both masterbate. Try it you will like it.

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/06/04 at 6:48 PM
JackBlue  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 54
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
oldkinky

I appreciate your advice.

While we both enjoy watching erotic videos, but how do I encourage her to play with herself while we do? Do I ask her to pleasure herself while I watch?

It seems like getting over the psychological hump is the most difficult part. I certainly don't want to cause any stress in bed because we have a great sex life. I'd just like to add this to our repitoire.

----------
Live, love and laugh!

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/06/04 at 7:07 PM
oldkinky  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 583
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Mar 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
Get a Pocket Rocket vibrator and use it on her clitoris. Then give it to her while you masterbate. Have fun.

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 12:57 AM
JackBlue  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 54
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
oldkinky

I ordered the iMissle, which is a newand improved version of the Pocket Rocket.

How do I introduce this device to my wife for purposes of self pleasure? I think I need more than "here, try this".

----------
Live, love and laugh!

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 2:28 AM

SumthingMore  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 28
 Group: New Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
Sure, suggest mutual masturbation. Let her know how much it turns you on to see her touch herself. Encourage it.. let her get used to the idea and the feeling of being watched.

Maybe you can play with her and then take her hand, guiding it down.. let go and see what happens. I think the most important thing is to let her know how much it pleases you, maybe she'll be willing to try more after she see's how much you like it.

----------
"My blood before me begs me,
open up my heart again." - H.

"And now you are, and I am now ... and we're a mystery ... which will never happen again." -E.E. Cummings

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 7:35 AM

dham  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 2007
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Jan 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
Honestly I think telling her how much you enjoy watching her is really good. I am the type I am always asking my hubby what he wants me to do and what turns him on. He too likes it when I play with my toys and pleasure myself. Sometimes he will take over one of the toys while I work on the clit vibrator.

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 7:44 AM
JackBlue  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 54
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
Dham

Great advice. I appreciate you and the others sharing your personal experiences with me.

I'm presently out of town and will be returning home later this week. I ordered the iMissile, as I mentioned in a previous post and have it being delivered to her the day I return. I'll even bring home some AA batteries.

Thanks again and please do continue to share your thoughts with me.

JackBlue

----------
Live, love and laugh!

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 8:21 AM
JackBlue  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 54
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Apr 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
Maybe I should interject another issue here.

If I encourage my wife to masturbate and then move to mutual masturbation, how do I introduce my self pleasure to her? Is this something I just begin to do? Should this also be discussed?

----------
Live, love and laugh!

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
posted: 04/07/04 at 4:38 PM
oldkinky  [more]
IP: Logged
 Posts: 583
 Group: Member 
 Joined: Mar 2004
 Status: OFFLINE
Make Buddy | PM User
My wife loves to watch me masterbate and just naturally starts masterbating when I do. Usually we just use masterbation for foreplay, but occasionally we will both cum while masterbating. She goes wild when I cum. Just lay your new vibrator on the bed beside her when you are doing foreplay. One thing you could do is show her these posts. Hope this helps.

click to: respond to this topic

Options: Reply To Topic | Start New Topic | Edit Message | Quote Message | Report Abuse
More On Page: (1) 2 »

 

Notice: Use this form ONLY if you are already a member! New users, register for free here!
Notice: This is our quick reply form, for all reply options such as smilies, HTML and more, click here!
Fast Reply:
Your User Name:    Want to register?
Your Password:    Forgotten your password?
Subject: (Optional)
Show Signature: include your profile signature.
 Notice: By submitting to this site, you agree to these terms of use.
Forum Options:
· Save this topic to my favorites (subscribed)!

· Email this topic to a friend!
Rate This Thread:

Back To: Lovingyou.com > Pillow Talk > Fantasies/Stories > Watching my wife masturbate

 

LOVINGYOU.COM SITE MAP
LOVE:  Communication | Affairs | Dating | Getting Serious | Getting Married | Break Ups | Loving Yourself | Support Groups | Dear Love
ROMANCE:  Romance 101 | Ideas | Date Nights | Recipes for Two | Romantic Travel | Craft Ideas | Holidays & Celebrations
PASSION:  Lovemaking 101 | Passion Play | Loverotica | Ask Aphrodite | Pillow Talk
INSPIRATION:  Love Poetry | Love Letters | Love Quotes | Love Stories | Dedications | Printables | Lovescopes | eCards
   Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Writer's Guidelines | Suggestions

Lovingyou.com, Inc.SM All rights reserved.

Message board powered by vBulletin. Copyright ©2000, 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Limited.

SheKnows Lifestyles