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Have been bi curious lately posted: 08/07/12 at 9:52 PM

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I'm a young fit male and have been straight as an arrow. But the last couple years, I've noticed that there are a lot of girls who are experimenting with the opposite sex. I am now suddenly curious about what it would be like to experiment with another guy. I have a guy friend who is gay and is willing to let me try him out. What do you all think? Anyone straight and try the bi thing? Is it worth it? Good? Ladies please weigh in as well. Is this a turn on for you to watch two guys? Just wondering if it is worth experimenting.

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Yes! posted: 08/18/12 at 12:17 AM

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Hi, First of all, Yes it is a turn on for a lot of girls to see 2 guys just as it is for guys to see 2 girls.
Second of all, doing it once does not make you gay or even Bi. And I have not talked to any guys who HAVE done it who were unhappy that they did it. The biggest 'problem' they had was with the taste of sperm and you can counter that with cinnamon (or wintergreen) lifesaver before starting. If you haven't already been tasting your own then start now so you can get by the initial taste issues.
And if this friend of your is STD free then you should be able to enjoy it, easily. Good luck to you and hope we hear how much you do enjoy it OK?
Have fun
Jackie

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posted: 08/18/12 at 2:34 AM

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In my opinion the majority of women are turned off by it. I am very open minded, seeing to women together will be a turn on, but seeing 2 men touching each other will shut me down instantly.

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posted: 08/18/12 at 4:16 PM

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Who cares what "the majority" thinks? Should people just not experiment sexually because someone else might think they are weird? Fvck that... why would you even want to date someone who's that sex negative?

My bf is bisexual and he began experimenting when he was at college. He really enjoys his sexuality and has finally been able to accept himself for who he is.

I first experimented with girls when I was about 28. I've had several very fulfilling relationships with women.

Go on and experiment. The worst that can happen is that you find that you don't like it. The best that can happen is find that younDO like it and you go on to expand your sexual horizon and have an amazing and wonderfully fulfilling sex life.

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posted: 08/18/12 at 4:41 PM

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From my perspective you seem to be asking different things i.e. is it worth it and is it a turn on/off to watch?

I have not experimented (not yet had the opportunity) but I am bicurious. My answer to you would be - there's only one way to find out whether or not it's worth it; the best way You're fortunate that someone has said you can experiment with them, so my advice to you would be to go for it.

Is it a turn off? No, not to me, personally. I would prefer to watch two women, personally, but that doesn't make it a turn off. But I'm with Blond; who cares what the 'majority' - or in my mine anybody else - thinks?

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posted: 08/18/12 at 6:39 PM

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He's asking what people think of it so he has an idea what's out there. Nothing wrong. It would be like a woman asking how many men on here like BJs. Nothing wrong in asking people's opinion.

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posted: 08/19/12 at 1:00 AM

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That's definitely true, Gail. I'm just of the opinion that if he wants to experiment, then he should have fun and not let anything get in his way

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posted: 08/22/12 at 1:15 AM

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So, boytoy_22? Have you done it with your friend yet? I thinkw e'd ALl like to know how it was and how much you liked it.
Hope you're experimenting safely too,
Jackie

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posted: 08/22/12 at 6:16 PM

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Yes I did. I listened to everyone's response and the bottom line was that there was nothing to be ashamed of and that if would definitely increase my sexual horizon. And if I never do it, I will never know sooooo, I did it. I did really enjoyed it just because it was a good buddy of mine and I think because he is gay and I talk to him a lot about sex and what I liked he was able to make it a very memorable experience.

Would I do it again? I don't know. I'm still very straight. I guess only to fool around with someone like my friend, just having a good time every once in a long while, but not really going out looking for it with others.

If you want the naughty details, let me know, I will PM you.

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posted: 08/23/12 at 6:24 PM

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YEAY ! Wonderful!
NOW aren't you happy you expanded your sexual horizons? I tried to pm but it wouldn't let me. I would love to know all the details! :-)

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