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Solution posted: 07/08/12 at 6:52 PM
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| I have found the solution to large size relative to which I can take, I use my hands in front of my mouth and don't let it go to my gag. But it took me some time to learn it. One of my female friend tried to tell me but I couldn't do it right. Then she gave me a porno DVD for sucking mostly long ****s. Now my SO feels its all deep in there but then I don't let him cum anywhere except in my mouth, which he believes very special treat. And I feel rewarded.
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posted: 07/08/12 at 10:44 PM
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^^ That's a great idea.  Watching porn actually can teach you things sometimes! LOL.
Believe it or not, I have a hard time looking my bf in the eyes, too. With guys in the past, it was no trouble! I am usually NOT shy at all  but with my current bf, the feelings are just so intense! I'm not embarrassed, it's just hard to focus on reaching orgasm (or helping him reach orgasm) when you are overcome by emotion.
I think that you just have to keep trying! In this case, luckily, practice is fun.
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posted: 07/09/12 at 12:05 AM
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| Its actually been alot better lately. I've managed to give him glances here and there, no longer have my hair covering my face stop he can't see, I actually move out away so he has a better view. Still having difficulty with deep throat but, that's getting a lurked better too since I'm not so nervous anymore... I can't watch MF porn, it is gross to me I input watch FF porn....
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Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
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posted: 07/09/12 at 12:06 AM
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| Omg. I seriously need to stop posting from my phone. Sound so illiterate
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
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posted: 07/09/12 at 12:41 AM
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I love looking at my hubby during orals..it's so HOT looking at his expressions and hearing his cute moans..lol, it turns me on!! he loves touching my face, feeling my body and playing with my hair when I go down on him..he likes me looking at at him, teasing him and we kiss a lot and talk dirty during sex so I think it helps too..I hardly feel embarassed because I feel really good and I enjoy the closeness and intimate moments together during orals. I love it when we climax together and love to watch him cum inside me, however, sometimes my hubby feels alittle shy when I get too 'wild' in bed.lol
My hubby is a big guy so I can't take his whole penis so if he gets too excited and moving fast..I would 'choked' so I would suggest going slow, if I go slow in my speed, I could take almost the whole thing .
AND we love watching porns together,lol it add some fun and excitment into our bedroom.
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 posted: 07/29/12 at 8:23 PM
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First off getting to look at your guy is something you must grow comfort with. It isn't something that happens overnight. If it helps to look beyond him or visualize something else for the moment to get you through it that may help, but it doesn't resolve the issue. I love being able to look into the eyes of my lover while I'm pleasuring them. It helps me to gauge what is working and what is not. It can help you read a lot about your partner and how well you are doing. This is a very intimate thing. I believe looking in the eyes during oral sex or intercourse is one of the most intimate things you can do with your partner. This man has vowed to love you forever. I understand despite all encouraging words that sometimes we as women still have our insecurities about our bodies. I guarantee you that in that moment all your man is thinking about is how awesome what your doing feels and how much he loves you for being willing to try to look at him while your doing it. It adds a much stronger emotional connection than if you were just to look down and I think that may be what he's aiming for here.
As far as issues with his size and your gag reflex, sometimes you will run into that problem. Rotate how it goes into your mouth so it's not straight on. Try encompassing the base of his c*ck with your hands so it doesn't have to go entirely in your mouth and choke you. This may be something that you won't get passed practice or not. Being a medical practitioner I can tell you that some people are just born with stronger gag reflexes than others and it's not something you can really practice out of. Key is going to be finding the right angle of pleasure and encircling your hands around it so he feels like hes getting the full satisfaction without you having to choke everytime you try.
Good Luck!
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posted: 08/24/12 at 5:54 PM
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Hi all,
new to forum, here to learn and try to improve my relationship, be gentle with me if I've offended, none intended.
Blow jobs
Straight men and gay men all love blow jobs, the range of sensations and visual stimulation are heavenly, there are very few men who do not enjoy receiving this intimate and selfless act.
It doesn’t have to be submissive on your knees(though it’s really nice to have that dutiful, loving approach), it can be laying over the man prone below, dominating and controlling, no set rules...
The way I feel about them is this:
In everything I do in life and for my partner and my kids, it is always about giving for them and placing myself at the back of the priority list, I do it automatically.
From hard manual labour, the taxi service at all hours, the foot rubbing on the sofa, to being the one who always gets up on Sunday to make the bacon sandwiches and tea.
Because I’m always preparing to do the next thing and looking ahead at what needs to be done, I never fully relax and just be, it’s not in my makeup.
Don’t get me wrong, I do this because I’m happy to, I do it because I feel I can do more than most, push myself harder, make more effort than everyone else, I have pride in trying harder than a lot of lazy so and so’s I see around me. In the end My family is me, I define myself in them...
In bed with my wife, I tend to her needs as best I can, and in my mind I’m not fully relaxed, even though I’m there in the moment with her, I’m watchful and trying to make the best of the time with her.
I’m not saying I’m the best lover, I’m trying to explore, trying to get her to explore and trying to read a thousand different signs in a few moments, I’m trying not to come too quickly, trying to give her release together, sex is not always a perfect end, sometimes it’s just a short release to reconnect with each other.
The only time I fully relax is when I’m receiving oral, when I don’t have to worry anything else in the world, about doing the right things for her, about tuning in to her needs.
When the oral is good, when she takes her time and I have that leg weakening, dizzy minded tingling orgasm, silly mewing sounds in my throat and cum like the thunder, then I’m chilled and at peace and so happy and content.
That she’s happy to do this and if she swallows, it’s like she’s saying it’s alright baby, (I may not be happy right now), but I’m here and I accept every bit of you, your mine and I’m putting you first to show you what you mean to me. Knowing my partner doesn’t love the taste of cum, but chooses to do so, or gets into the right mental state and actually gets turned on when doing it, make that swallowing even more special and so much more wanted.
The eye contact, the humming, the little tricks and games played while giving me head amplify my pleasure and joy that my woman want to do this for me.
I think that this is probably true of all the decent blokes out there, who do more for their family than many will ever realise, men are the imperfect beast, but we try.
So ladies if you ever feel that you’re just serving your man and it ticks you off, please give a thought to this honest post, If you love your man, even in the bad times, when nothing is going right and you feel ‘sod it’ to giving him oral, just maybe that decent bit of oral is what will get you both past the barrier you both put up and take you back to the reason you chose each other, love and pure intimacy, not all the shit that fights to tear you apart.
Fella’s same would be true for going down on your woman, the selfless act is what we all crave, to be loved enough to be put first, that is what oral is...
Sadly, my partner and I are constantly struggling to be intimate, she has issues: where her parents relationship revolved around her mum cutting sex off when she wasn’t happy, to the tune of the last twenty years with the father in law (poor f*cker).
my wife is following the programming and I try to remind her that sex is the glue that holds us together, that ‘ that breaks down our selfish self defence walls and allows us to be receptive, open to each other and mend the hurt and the growing cold between us.
God I miss a long slow heartfelt blowjob!
Love and luck
Cyrano
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posted: 09/11/12 at 10:23 AM
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| I always make eye contact. I don't look at them in their eyes the ENTIRE time cos that would just be creepy, lol, but I do from time to time look up at them. I just love to see the expression on their face. It tells me if I'm doing something right or wrong.
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