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Always in the mood for sex posted: 06/07/12 at 12:06 AM
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| While fooling around my boyfriend said to me I'm always in the mood and ready to have sex with him. He was smiling but I'm not sure if that's meant to be a good thing or not. I'm recently sexually active but I do know I have a high sex drive because somehow, sometimes I wear him out for the night! Am I being high maintaince? I mean I'm still learning.
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posted: 06/07/12 at 1:58 AM
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It's normal, I think we all go at it a lot when we first start out. Through your life you will have ups and downs in your libido. Watch yourself when you hit 40 and up!
You only see your boyfriend a few times a week, of course you want it each time. When you see someone each day it settles a little, or a lot, depending.
When I am told I like it a lot, I take it as a compliment.
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posted: 06/07/12 at 2:54 AM
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I have heard that there are guys out there who have low libidos, but I've never dated one.. lol.
My exes would sometimes ask me why I didn't initiate with them; but sex was happening almost every day and I was like well... you beat me to it.
With my boyfriend now, though, sometimes he initiates, and sometimes I do. While I was staying with him, I lost count of how many times that first day, and it tapered off a little, but at least once a day and either one of us could be the one to initiate. Sometimes I would come onto him; sometimes he would come onto me. He says he loves that I'm always ready for him and that I come after him when I want him, because it makes him feel desired and wanted and loved. So, no, it's not a bad thing!! I guess it depends on the guy, but I don't think any man would want his advances turned away regularly, or want to feel like his girlfriend didn't want him!
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posted: 06/08/12 at 5:35 PM
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| Enjoy the high libido while you can. It might not always be there. And as Gail said, at some point life might get in the way, but that's OK.
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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY
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posted: 06/08/12 at 6:17 PM
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Oh boy, ive had a battle with this the last year in a half that ive been with my fiance. I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who i was with for 7 years. We humped like bunnies at first and then, when things went south, i was trying to find reasons to NOT sleep with him. Now with my fiance i think im kind of addicted...
As soon as he comes home from work i want to jump on him, when we wake up i want it, when were watching tv i want him. I just wants him all the time. 24/7... Its great for me... But, his sex drive, not so high. We have sex about 5 times a week. Sometimes if hes to tried, we plan to have a "fun saturday" we call it. Where we spend the whole day together on the couch which causes some fun.. Then at night, we get va lil drunk and have long, fun, adventurous sex sessions. His job is really difficult, he works doing physical labor so, he does get really tired since he also drives about 200-300 miles a day. Some nights sex is just not possible.. I sometimes get upset which is silly but, he does try to keep up with my high sex drive by planning our Saturdays together  .
Your not being high maintenance its totally normal and trust me, he doesn't mind it... even if his sex drive isn't so high he loves the fact that you want him. Its a huge ego boost.
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
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posted: 06/08/12 at 7:23 PM
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| I have a higher sex drive then my husband. Being with kids all day long, when he's home and we're alone, I'm usually game for some "adult time". He's different because his day is physically demanding and he's exhausted. We make it work though. He says he'd MUCH rather me want too much then want none at all
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Love is not an emotion, it's a decision.
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posted: 06/09/12 at 2:34 AM
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I read a lot of forums, and by far the biggest complaint is wives not wanting sex or desiring them. It makes men bitter, feel rejected and unloved, and anti-woman.
I have very very rarely seen a man complain that his partner wants too much sex. Like silk said, they'd rather you want too much than none!
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posted: 06/10/12 at 4:30 AM
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He was smiling when he said it. It's good. If you are unclear of what he meant...why not ask him?
I've been with someone and ever since we started having sex....I cannot get enough of him. He's turned me into a sex crazed monster. haha.
Then again, my drive has always been healthy.
Your drive is healthy Baby07.
Unless you are wanting to screw every hour or something.
There's nothing wrong with wanting sex often.
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~Love is a cycle. When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate.
When you hate, you try to forget.
When you try to forget, you start missing.
When you start missing, you eventually will fall in love again~
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posted: 06/10/12 at 6:02 PM
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You'll know when you're too high maintenance, or being too needy. I'm sure that those men who find a woman's high sex drive a turn-off are in the minority. So long as you don't turn it into a stressful thing, or over-analyze the crap out of it, you'll be okay. Just have fun, and be yourself, from all that I've read from you, it sounds like your boyfriend is very much into you and not just for the sex.
I used to avoid sex, in fact, I thought that I'd never enjoy sex. That changed when I met my current boyfriend. I knew I had a very overly sexual mind, because I think about sex 80% of the day. That being said, I do constantly wonder if I'm also a burden, because ever since being with him I've wanted it all day every day. He's even commented on the fact that I'm hornier than he is (and that's saying something).
I think, ultimately, you just have to be positive. Most of the guys I've been with expressed discomfort or dislike over something. Have faith that he'll be open with you if something bothers him, including the sex.
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