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Why is this happeng to me all of a sudden?? posted: 04/03/12 at 3:51 AM
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Whats up guys? Im a 23 year old healthy dude. I ply alot of bball and im in good shape. While my girl was on vaca for a week and a half and i had a bad cold. When she came back we were having great sex i was amazing i had full control of when i wanted to finish it was great and she loved it. She had her period last week so we didnt have sex(obv). We started back up again and had sex twice. Both times i came way to quickly. What the hells going on?? Was it because i was sick so i was just doing my thing and didnt care? I can usually controll it. Whts going on?

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posted: 04/03/12 at 4:38 AM
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When i can control its when we are alone un my house. Both times i came quick there were other people sleeping in my house? Maybe i was rushing or worrying about waking them up?? This is really bothering me

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posted: 04/03/12 at 5:07 AM
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When i was sick was i desensitized? I could smell anything either. Idk what the hell is going on here??

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posted: 04/03/12 at 12:46 PM

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Stop panicking.

Maybe it was being sick, or being anxious... so now that you are not sick, try not to be anxious (easy, right?) and try again. If its back to normal, then no worries. If the issue persists when you are feeling healthy, then look into anxiety.

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posted: 04/03/12 at 8:44 PM

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OK, so I guess you didn't have sex during her period. Did you/do you masturbate? I could be the excitement of the renewed sex got you off quicker than usual, which may have seemed TOO quick due to your desensitization earlier.

I know it feels different for me during my wife's period or if SHE's under the weather. Creates a slipperiness and heat that feel....different.

But all of the things you mentioned could play into it. Pressure to repeat your superman performance, over-excitement, company in the house, one or both of you still under-the-weather, etc.

As eft said, don't worry about it and see if it persists. Your body (and your lady's) is not a machine. Bodies perform differently from one day/week/month to the next for a variety of mental, emotional and physical issues.

Again, what's your masturbation routine?

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posted: 05/03/12 at 2:38 PM
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On her period i masturbate everyday pretty much. I posted this a few weeks ago. After i posted this i lasted long time again. She had her period and this happendd again!!!

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posted: 05/03/12 at 3:10 PM
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On her period i masturbate everyday pretty much. I posted this a few weeks ago. After i posted this i lasted long time again. She had her period and this happendd again!!!
Idk wht it is. Wen she has her period and i masturbate too much i get sore down there and cant last long. I think maybe i try to get in too fast when i dont really feel like havin sex just to prove to myself i can last long. When really i should give it a rest and then have sex when im REALLY wanting it

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posted: 05/03/12 at 7:35 PM

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Sounds like a plan.

Every sexual instance won't be the best you've ever done/had. When you do have those mind-blowing sessions, great, but don't expect them every time.

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posted: 06/07/12 at 7:07 PM

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I would agree that your long lasting love sessions was due to your cold. You were numbed more but now you're healthy you need to give yourself a less of a boost. try desensitizer like this, http://penispumpwarehouse.com/power...am-DJ131101.php instructions are there too. It's a wonderful solution and you can put it on privately when she is in the bathroom "getting ready" and she will never even know you've put it on.

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posted: 10/15/12 at 5:30 PM

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I found that period sex was aggravating, not slippery like lube at all, also I'm more squeamish then other girls maybe becuase I think it's such a turn off, maybe all these considerations create performance anxiety - at least if both partners have performance anxiety and can't get wet or an erection, you can give up and watch a movie or something.

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