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is he cheating posted: 05/21/12 at 10:11 PM
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| I have found text mess on my bfs phone to a nother female they are really ex rate. Dose this mean he is cheatting on me or is he just talking to her. I know that he dose not see her. She lives about 6 hrs from us. But she dose come back this way from time to time and I been told they see each other then I have asked him about her and he tells me they r old friends and yes they dated but that's all. Do I tell him I found more mess or just let it be
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posted: 05/27/12 at 6:28 AM
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Texts do NOT =cheating.
That said, I'm more curious in why you looked through the messages on his phone? Has he given you reason to distrust him? Keep your hands on your own phone and woila! No strange texts to cause worry bug invasion!
Poetman
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posted: 05/27/12 at 8:48 AM
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It's not possible for any of us to to confirm whether or not he's actually physically involved with her. You will have to trust your gut and go with the facts that you do have.
He's sending inappropriate text messages to an ex g/f. Is this something that you consider to be over the line? Is he violating your trust and your agreed exclusivity by these actions? If so I would attempt a discussion with him regarding the nature of these messages. So yes, tell him what you have seen. Do not allow him to turn you into the criminal due to checking his messages when it is him who has violated the relationship. A common defense tactic by cheaters is to turn the tables around on you and tell you that you're crazy and psycho (guys love using the word psycho when a woman catches him doing wrong). Stick with what you know and make him accountable for it.
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posted: 05/28/12 at 4:08 PM
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Thinking about it more, did you two actually lay down the parameters for what is allowed texting vs not? IF you did and he violated those agreed upon parameters, then you have a valid concern. If NOT and he tries turning the tables on you, then you need to sit down and have a discussion.
Best of luck,
Poetman
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I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E
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posted: 05/31/12 at 5:34 PM
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| Could just be playful banter with someone he was once intimate with. If he knows you suspect it could be otherwise, he'll probably curb his behavior.
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