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posted: 05/08/12 at 5:34 PM

Gail65  [more]
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Yes and the nice season is starting it's the perfect time to start dating again. First I will take a little break. Right now every beautiful Jamaincan man walking by is Will.

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posted: 05/08/12 at 6:19 PM
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This is all too bad Gail, my heart really does go out to you. I know you're hurt.

I hope that you can find the strength to move on now. You wanted Will to be something and he's not it, he's never going to be it. He is who he is and, beautiful or not, he doesn't (and wont) make you happy.

In a way, I wish he had done something that made you really angry. I think you have a hard time cutting all ties with him because you see good in him. Sure, there is good in him, but he doesn't make you happy. So, you can struggle on trying to morph him into your idea or you can move on and find someone that you really do have something in common with.

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posted: 05/08/12 at 6:27 PM

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Gail, I hope for your sake you mean what you are saying about ending this with Will and moving on.

Heartinfire is correct about my idea of the P.I.--it's not really a serious one and not one a would normally recommend--just possibly a last resort if for some reason you cannot break away and you need to know for your peace of mind or closure. But sounds like you do not need to go that far and I agree no need to spend the money.

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posted: 05/08/12 at 7:47 PM

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this time stick to it gail dont give in and call him, let him go he made you unhappy and did nothing but lied to you the whole time you guys where together,

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posted: 05/09/12 at 1:47 AM

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Thank you all for your support and your kind words.

You're right Silk. I wanted him to be a man he's not. I feel like I miss him, and I feel like I have lost something but in reality I did not, I never had anything.

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