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posted: 05/01/12 at 3:01 AM
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Honestly, I think it's really odd for him to ask when you don't know each other very well. A weekend away is something I'd consider for an established relationship of whatever sort... and the fact that he's so roundabout in asking you out all the time would really turn me off regardless.
Pfft! That's what I say. Especially since you'd have to pay for it yourself! What's the point? You could have a fun weekend away with people you KNEW you'd enjoy for that price instead of him!
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posted: 05/01/12 at 3:08 AM
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Originally posted by Gail65
I am not cheap but.....do I really want to disburse maybe $200 for a room to spend a weekend with a guy that I did not have time to grow to like yet, and maybe will have to socialize with a bunch of people I don't know.
And if you think about it who in their right mind would make such an invitation.
I think you have answered your own question.
I'd simply tell him that you do not feel comfortable enough to go on a weekended getaway just yet.
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posted: 05/01/12 at 3:30 AM
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| If you are totally convinced you would be safe with him and want to go, just go and ask him to sleep on the lounge/floor. Why might you go? Something different, might be fun, might get to know him better. Why wouldn't you go? Don't know him well enough, he might be dangerous, he may be trying to con you somehow.
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posted: 05/01/12 at 3:36 AM
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I may have missed something while I was away with my mom, sister and dad (just diagnosed with Lymphoma)...but what about Will? Is he still on the scene or did you break up? Because if he IS still a part of your life, then that would be all the answer I would have for the H dude.
Of course if he's NOT then it's a whole different ball of wax and I agree with the others-too soon. He seems a bit desperate for company? Wanting not to be the only one without a date on his arm? Ah, what do I know!
Cheers,
Poetman
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posted: 05/01/12 at 4:26 AM
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| Wait...first he said he asked you because he didn't want to go alone. Then you say his co-workers are going...he won't be alone if his co-workers will be there! His invitation makes no sense.
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posted: 05/01/12 at 11:38 AM
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Poetman: Welcome back and very sorry to hear about your dad. Here is a summary: Last week it had been 6 months Will and I started dating. He still does not want to introduce me to his family or his children or show me where he lives. We had a talk about it, I expressed my dissatisfaction, he asked me to be patient as his usual. Instead of being a constructive conversation he slacked off on the communication.
Blondgrrl: What he means is he will be the only one without a partner.
I am not going to go. I considered it for a minute, as something spontaneous to do and it would keep my mind off Will but it feels too much like this guy sees me as an accommodation, not pleasant company.
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