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first handjob posted: 05/13/09 at 11:28 AM
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Tell me about the first handjob you gave or received. How long did he last? How suprised were you when he came?

I have two first time stories. The kind of first time happened when I was about 13-14 on the schoolbus. I was sitting with this guy and I was seeing how excited I could get him by touching his legs and groin area. It didn't take a lot of rubbing his leg before I saw a bulge. I then began to lightly rub and touch his bulge over his pants and I saw he was getting driven crazy. I didn't really know what was going on. Then I started to touch/rub a little more and we then hit some bumps and I felt it moving and twitching. I noticed him tense up and a few seconds later he had a wet spot and was a little embarrassd.

Second time- my boyfriend and I were making out in his car. As he was playing with my tits I unbuttoned his pants. He was rock hard and it was my first feel. I just started rubbing it and listened to him get more and more excited. After a couple of minutes of making out and me rubbing he pulled back and tensed up. I looked down at his penis and it began shooting out. It shot and hit the seat and got on my shirt. I was shocked at how far the little guy could go.

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posted: 05/13/09 at 4:02 PM
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I'm not a big fan of hand jobs personally. It takes a real master to do it well. The girls I've been with were not all that skilled in the art even with coaching.

I'd rather have a blowjob 100% of the time over a hand job.
The best hand jobs are the ones you do alone...

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posted: 05/13/09 at 7:53 PM

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my first was after we went to the movies..The Graduate.. then we went to her grandparents cellar and she wanted to make out ..i got my hand in her panties but she said shee had a better idea and then she stroked me off..Wow I remember it as if it was yesterday. I came almost immediatly Oh yea her name was Shaon Bloomers and she was my first hand job .

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posted: 05/13/09 at 9:23 PM

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With my first boyfriend it took tons of practice, I had sore arms by the end of it! but then I perfected the art and managed to make him cum within 10 minutes if I wanted to.

Its not the same with my current bf, although maybe that's because we're long distance so we can't practice a lot. I've never been able to get him off on a handjob alone, even though he loves my touch and I've tried often.

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posted: 05/13/09 at 9:55 PM

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Um...I think i was 17. My first serious boyfriend. I wasn't at all surprised when he came- I had a mother who was VERY frank and told me everything I needed to know. I don't even remember where we were, or how it came about (no pun intended...LOL). I think it was probably in my car. That bf and I did EVERYTHING in my car.....it was about the only place we could have any real privacy.

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posted: 05/14/09 at 12:10 AM

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I was the first guy that she ever gave a handjob. I was 16, she was 15. She was really scared at first, but I had just fingered her to orgasm, and she wanted to do the same for me. I showed her what to do. She was a natural. She still is!! 37 years later and her hand jobs are mind-blowing (obviously I married her). She can hold me right on the edge forever! When I cum...WOW!!!! She had never seen a guy cum, but I told her what would happen. Was she surprised? Somewhat, but I think more fascinated.

I am one of those guys who love handjobs. I can have some of my most intense orgasms that way

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posted: 01/04/12 at 9:05 AM
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My first hand job was at a new years party, i was 16 years old at the time. It was a small party (around 12 people) and i didnt know anyone except the host. This girl and i had been hitting it off at the party and she was pretty drunk. We were talking and holding hands, and when new years came around we kissed each other. An hour after midnight we started a pretty awesome make out session in another room, but someone came in so we stopped. The person that came in told the girls best friend and word got around the party. When it was time to get to bed, the host made the sleeping arrangements so that her and i were together (hes such a bro). We started spooning, and spooning led to some boob massaging, and then she started to unbutton my jeans. i helped her pulled down my pants and my underwear and she started to stroke my penis. She wasnt very good at first (it was a little painful) but i guided her hand to the right place and she got the hang of it pretty quick. She went fast at times, and then slowed down, and repeated this about 3 times. It lasted about 30 mins until i couldnt take it anymore, and i blew my load under the bed sheets.

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posted: 01/06/12 at 7:07 AM

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I personally love handjobs and have never understood why they were given such a low rating on the scale. Most of my exes were very good at giving them and I was quite happy to get off that way. Others were better at oral but the handjob should never be underestimated.

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posted: 01/07/12 at 4:49 AM

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There are not many women that can give good HJ's. Probably because they don't have their own penis to practice on. I am sure guys could give the best ones lol. My wife is not particularly good at them unfortunately, but she has succeeded a few times in making me cum, but not nearly as hot of a situation as described above with the school bus ride

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posted: 01/12/12 at 8:01 PM

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The first hand-job I gave coincided with the first time I had penetration sex. I didn't have a clue what I was doing - I'd read about it but in practice, I was too nervous and excited by everything going on to treat him to a proper hand-job.

I consider myself a pro now. I agree with CT, a good hand-job should never be underestimated. There's so much scope for variety. I get lots of pleasure from doing it for my husband and over the years, he's guided me. I feel at one with the penis now.

Lots of lube, no lube, one hand, two hands, hand and tongue, slowly, fast, tip tickle, shaft pumping, head stroke, shaft stroke, finger ring, tight grip, loose grip - OMG the sky's the limit.

My favorite is him on our leather couch, allows me to kneel between his knees, sit next to him, stand above him, rub it against myself. He also likes the sensation of his ass and balls on cold leather. I also enjoy jerking him off standing from behind. I pretend to be someone else. "Hey baby, it's Gina G and I'm gonna make you cum" "Yeah, Gina loves your C8ck"

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