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posted: 11/26/08 at 12:38 PM

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One of the most grotesque sexual acts to me is when a man going anal on a woman, he pulls out and she starts sucking on him.

Ick!

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posted: 11/26/08 at 5:22 PM

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ahem I agree wih spices O_o...but he can always pull out and suck on me =D

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posted: 11/27/08 at 9:39 AM

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As my ex said, its so damn tight and it feels great. I dont personally like it because it feels like Im shitting a brick for over an extended period of time.

I have a few hysterical anal stories, but I wont share them here. Too personal. Its not my thing, tried it, but really was not into it. I wish I could get into it, but it doesnt feel that good to me.

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posted: 12/02/08 at 1:41 AM

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Sexpert Q & A: Is Anal Sex Unsafe?
by Dr. Yvonne Fulbright

Question" My guy wants to have anal sex. Is it safe?

Answer: Unprotected anal sex is a high-risk sexual behavior, especially when it comes to HIV transmission. Using a latex condom lowers your risk for acquiring HIV or other sexually transmitted infections during anal intercourse. Furthermore, the experience can be made safer with a water-based lubricant which is specifically for anal intercourse. For an easier and safer anal sex experience, make sure that the condom-covered penis is well lubricated. Then, just try to relax during penetration, as your
partner takes care not to tear the delicate lining of your rectum which could result in future hemorrhoids. I just think that an activity that has a high risk of resulting in a massive e coli infection (or any of a host of other infections) deserves to be called “dangerous.” Just because a lot of people do it doesn’t change this basic fact that it is very risky.

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posted: 12/02/08 at 3:38 AM

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quote:
Originally posted by LemonPledge
the guys who are driven toward it, I think they're about things they think others are having that they're not. The guys that are getting it, often resist their enjoyment. When they really understant that their partners enjoy it, they learn to enjoy it.

A guy who wants it who have never had it, well, I'm thinking they're guys who have this idea that everyone else is having things they aren't. They're porn motivated. They have no real understanding about what real couples are doing for real reasons.



I think there is truth to the above statement. I've not had anal intercourse and I am strongly intrigued by it. I would love to feel what it feels like, but not at the expense of my marriage. My wife allows some anal play on her including me licking her there and fingering some, but when it comes to me poking my big guy in there, she doesn't want to. She said maybe sometime we can try it.

I have seen a few porn clips with it and I have to say that raised my curiosity. I read on here that there are couples that enjoy it, and I sort of want to see if we can enjoy it, so I must fall in the group of men that think we are missing out on something.

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posted: 12/02/08 at 4:39 AM

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I honestly think any girl who says she likes it is lying.
Read jenna jamesons memoir...she'll tell you
Plus is hurts like hell
If neither my vag or mouth can please him, the problem is not me

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posted: 12/02/08 at 7:01 AM

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I just really enjoy giving and most women who I am with enjoys getting it. More like it than NOT like it.

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posted: 12/02/08 at 11:08 PM

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quote:
Originally posted by LemonPledge
Antswife, I have got to tell you that you're 100% wrong on your statements. If it hurts, something is wrong. And if I tell you I like it (and I do), I'm not lying. And any man who tells you that he enjoys receiving isn't lying either. What on Earth could we possibly gain by lying about something stupid like this?

Like many other sexual interests, this one is just a part of our repetoire.

I was the one who introduced anal sex to our relationship. So while men probably do encourage it more often than women, it isn't all about the guys wanting it.

I like Mr. Music's attitude about not being willing to harm his marriage at all with his curiousity. He's the kind of guy who is more likely to have his interest pleasantly rewarded at some time than the guy who pushes for a particular act. Very mature and loving.



LemonPledge, I appreciate that very much. My wife is a great lover. Maybe someday we can enjoy this together. In the mean time, I will enoy everything else!

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posted: 12/03/08 at 12:43 AM

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I never used to enjoy it. I've come to LOVE it. I would almost rather have that than regular sex. Or vaginal. To me it feels great and my O's during anal have been so strong... I love it!

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posted: 12/03/08 at 2:12 AM

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