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Confused!!! What does "popping the cherry" mean????? Question posted: 05/29/03 at 6:55 AM

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Hello everyone!
this is my first time posting.....I'm not used to doing this, but I really want to know what it means when guys say that they can take a girls' virginity by "popping the cherry"? what does this "popping the cherry" really mean? is it true that if one is a virgin, the first time she has sexual intercourse, she will bleed...and if she doesn't, then she wasn't a virgin?

can anyone give me any ideas as to what it means??? anyone? please....

Thanks....

~latinprincess

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posted: 05/29/03 at 7:00 AM

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the rather annoying phrase 'popping the cherry' means tearing a woman's hymen. the hymen is a thin layer of tissue just over the vaginal opening. some women have hymens, some women dont. some women tear their hymen during childhood doing gymnastics or riding horses, some women tear/stretch it using tampons.

not all females will bleed during sex for the first time, but some will. a hymen or bleeding during first time intercourse doesnt mean anything with regards to virginity.

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posted: 05/29/03 at 10:52 PM
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What does this "popping the cherry" really mean?
It means tearing a woman's hymen, A little ring around the enterance of the vagina. Also sometimes the hymen isn't broke, only stretched and some very lucky women are born without one. Also gymnastics, horsbackriding, and other things can cause the hymen to tear.

is it true that if one is a virgin, the first time she has sexual intercourse, she will bleed...and if she doesn't, then she wasn't a virgin?
Some women bleed. Some women don't. Some women even bleed after they have had sex. The hymen tears to allow whatever is trying to penetrate it to get in. So if a woman moved to a bigger partner, it would be normal if she bled again.

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thank YOU!!! Talking posted: 06/11/03 at 7:16 AM

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...Thanks a bunch "girly" and "itzy" for your thorough explanation. I'm new to the forums, and I'm really glad that I've come across them because I've learned so much from eveyrone else. once again,Thanks for taking the time to read my question and answer.

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posted: 06/29/03 at 7:23 AM
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"Popping the cherry" Is the tearing of the girls hymen. Most girls hymens are popped way before they have sex. The simple movement of riding a horse, falling down, riding a bike, any kind of brut force to your lower body usually pops it before you have sex. Bleeding when you first have sex it's not true for EVERY girl, diffrent girls, diffrent bodie reactions. Just because you don't bleed when you first have sex doesnt mean you werent a virgin to begin with. Some religons believe this but its not true. Girls as young as 5 can have "popped cherry's" from doing certin activites like the ones I've already named up there.

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posted: 07/02/03 at 12:49 PM

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It is a little hard though to tell if a girl is still a virgin if her "cherry doesn't popped". lol. Because the hymen is very delicate and has been known to brake by horse back riding, sport etc.
So a girl can be still a virgin if she does not bleed the first time. Sometimes it just brakes of it's own acord when a girl reaches a certain stage of development. The lining of the vagina changes throughout maturity, so if a girl is passed her ripeness yet still has not had sex, her hymen may no longer be there, yet she is still a virgin.

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