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Still have feelings for her ex. posted: 09/23/05 at 3:26 AM

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Hello... I'm really on burst right now, I can't accept the fact that my girlfriend still has feelings for her ex. boyfriend. Why? I need answers pls help me...

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posted: 09/23/05 at 3:31 AM

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Well How long were they together for? When did they breakup? when did she date you? My guess is that when she started a relationship with you, it was right after the breakup of theres and she wasnt over him, and you my man is the rebound guy..

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posted: 09/23/05 at 3:36 AM

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They we're together for 2 months. Also one thing they we're bestfriends... The only reason why they brokeup is beacuase they didn't wanna ruin thier relationship. You might be right, I don't really know when they broke it off. It may seem that I might be the rebound. But it's killing me I feel like my heart is getting drilled. Sometimes I would see her with him she has this big smile on her face... I sometimes ask myself why can't I do that?...

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posted: 09/23/05 at 3:59 AM
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she will more than likely have feeling for her ex as a friend but not yet realise that...if they have been friends for awhile and started a relationship and decided that they where better of as friends she will probally be a little confused with her feelings....having a friendship with a male can be very confusing sometimes because you always mistake some feeling for others and thats when problems like this come up......if you undertstand what i mean!!! if you really like her keep trying, take her out for a meal and treat her like no one else has..

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posted: 09/23/05 at 4:13 AM

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I agree since they brokeup becuz they wanted to be friends and couldnt handle the bf/gf thing then the rebound idea is out of the question. If you have any doubts you should ask her, thats what she's there for.

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posted: 09/23/05 at 4:26 AM
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am soo sorry for that

u hav a lot if reasons
one of them which is the most important ( as i think)

that she didnt feel yet u giving her as the ex one gave her

or u couldnt cover her neeeds exactly like him

any way she is wrong couse if she is with u now she must push her self to ferget him completly

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posted: 09/23/05 at 5:42 AM

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We just got into an arguement. She says she will always have feelings for him. What am I doing wrong?

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posted: 09/23/05 at 6:18 AM

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it isnt you, its her leftover feelings for him. I think you need to slow things down with her, if she is starting to make you feel this way then its not fair to you.I think you need to be the adult here and tell her that you care about her,but you need to let her go until she figures out her feelings, and if she realizes that she wants to be with you great, but tell her that you feel like your incompetion for her heart..

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posted: 09/23/05 at 11:09 AM

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I have done that... We took a break no communication for 3 weeks I believe we didn't see each other... She said she wants to be with me. But she still has feelings for her Ex.

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posted: 09/23/05 at 8:53 PM

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quote:
Originally posted by S2pidLuv
I have done that... We took a break no communication for 3 weeks I believe we didn't see each other... She said she wants to be with me. But she still has feelings for her Ex.

Well, I know your not gonna like what I say, but,if I were you I would breakup with her and find a woman who is gonna give me 100% of her affection,and attention. You shouldnt be competing for your gf, in reality she already picked the winner, and its her ex. I mean you split up for 3 weeks and it didnt do any good, she will always have those strong feelings for her ex, so unless you always want to be #2 in her life then I suggest you moveon. I mean it will be hard but day by day it will get easier, if you dont you will only be delaying the inevitable..

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