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Crazy about you Lightbulb posted: 01/29/05 at 8:37 AM
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Hi guys,
I'm hoping you could give me a little insight
I've been dating a guy for about a month. The other night he told me that he was crazy about me. I'm scared that he might be falling for me. What does it really mean when a guy says that they are Crazy About You? Am I reading into this too much. I'm not ready for a serious relationship and I don't know what to think.
Thanks in advance for your perspective

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posted: 01/29/05 at 3:37 PM
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Only a month you say, well I'm actually kind of in the same situation with a girl, It's also been a month. I told her I'm getting feelings for her which is along the same lines as this guy say he's crazy about you. A lot of guys don't want to say I LOVE YOU too soon especially if he really likes the girl, thats why I told the girl I'm seeing that I'm getting feelings for her and that is most likely why this guy said he's crazy about you. It sounds like he feels it's too soon to say I LOVE YOU but he wants you to know that if you 2 stay together you will more then likely hear him say I LOVE YOU.

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posted: 01/29/05 at 9:25 PM

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Your not reading too much into it... He's already gone nuts over you You gotta tell him to turn speed dial down a notch. Its way too early for stuff like that... See each other like once a week until your ready for the next lvl but if you did that he might drive you insane with the phone calls so cut those out too. It really can get quit annoying. explain to him that professing his love to you will make you unattracted to him as will no giving the relationship breathing room and that if he really wants to make something of the relationship he will need take it a bit slower until you are ready for something more and you'll let him know when that is.... or else move on. Poor guy doesn't know any better.

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posted: 01/30/05 at 12:02 AM

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My guy of about a month tells me he really really likes me. And emphasize it in every email and everytime we talk. I'm freaking out as I'm so afraid of believing him after only one month. I like him so much and we definitely connect on many levels. I don't know how to respond to him other than tell him I like him too but only time will tell what this is all about. It's infatuation stage and it's easy to get all the good feelings. After a few months and he's still telling me this, then I'm willing to let myself believe.

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posted: 01/30/05 at 10:09 AM

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Good for you dont listen to his flapping lip just judge him by his actions.

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posted: 02/28/05 at 5:41 AM
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Hmm... I'd say he'S falling for you.... I can't tell you what you should do... I know that sometimes guys like to think their inlove with a girl because they get along with them so well.... they're missunderstanding close friendship for love because your female....

So...

I can't really help you in what you should do... telling him your not ready will hurt him and will distance him if he's not like me... lol...

And Since I don't know anything about this guy I can't really tell you how he'll react...

BUT... I say you act colder around him... push him into the distance... don't let im get to intimate with you (in a verbal sence) adn don't give him the Idea that you want to be with him (unless you want it)

You say you are 'dating' him.... That would imply a romantic situvation (at least to me) so perhaps you should 'date' someone else and ask him on 'advice'...lol...

Just so he knows he'S just a friend to you... nothing more... (if it's like that)

HOWEVER, it could also be a problem on your side... what do you mean your not 'ready' for a 'relationship'? Love happens and most of the time exactly then when you DON'T expect it... so... perhaps you are just to scared that someone might want to be with you...

If it's like that... the I STRONGLY suggest you overcome that fear...

Love is something very pressious... don'T waste it and don't be afraid of it...

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posted: 02/28/05 at 5:46 AM

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Crazy about you? Well, there might be somethings that you make him feel that make him feel like you drive him crazy(in a good way). You two might do some things that are just fun---like goofing off in the rain, playing football with him, playign video games, going to some good movies---something just spontaneous and fun. That might make him say that. You might just be upbeat and original. Or....it could mean that he's falling for you. I wouldn't freak out too much. If it suddenly turns to I Love You, let him know how you feel about it. Some guys need the attention and affection back, but I think if he really cares, he will understand if you are not falling as fast as he is

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