Has anyone ever love someone they hardly know, I met my boyfriend online about 5months ago his from chicago im from new york dispite the distance he came to new york for a visit we spend a week together in that week i fell in love with him. Its hard to explain but we fit together like a hand to a glove. he knows what im about to say even before i say it, he the first guy that actually pay attention to me as person and not just as a pretty face. But now i have a problem you see the day after x-mas he stop calling me for 3 whole days may me call him like crazy without an answer from him then the day before new years he call me and tell me its over then just reasonly he call and ask me back out i said yeah but i cant help there are things i dont know about him i think he living a double live.
Why don't you try asking him why he did this? Tell him how it made you feel and ask him what's going on. Tell him that you need to know where you stand with him and ask him to be honest with you. The only way you'll ever be able to have any sort of relationship with him is if he is completely honest with you.
I know what its like to love someone who lives a very long way from you! I'm originally from the US but my husband is from England, so I now live in England. However, we just filed his visa to move back to the United States.
So it is possible to have a relationship with someone so far away whom you barely know (hubby and I met online as well), but there has to be a strong network of trust there.
Again, talk to him and ask him all your questions.
Dearie, I am experiencing it now. We emailed each other for a month before meeting up. He is from Switz and me in Asia. We met and spent a wonderful week together. It was difficult to say goodbye when I sent him to the airport.
It is closed to 3 weeks now that he has gone and I only receive less than 5 emails and 3 SMS from him. I am in the position of not being sure where I stand..