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Valentine Gift for Secret Lover posted: 01/14/05 at 10:46 PM
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Any ideas on what to get someone you're in a secret relationship with? Something sweet, sexy, cute that others wouldn't know about or they wouldn't question him about? Need major help...

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posted: 01/20/05 at 4:43 PM

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Any gift (preferably something he talked about that he wants/likes/etc) with a card signed "Secret admirer" will do!
A CD of his favourite bands or singers, a book of his favourite authors...

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posted: 01/21/05 at 1:10 PM
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Underwear!!

Sexy red silk briefs or those tight little boxers

He can wear them all day and no one would know but him.

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posted: 01/21/05 at 10:03 PM
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Thanks guys, but what I meant is that we are both married and having an affair. I know this sounds terrible, but both are very unusual situations. So it has to be something NOBODY would ever question.

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posted: 01/28/05 at 3:24 PM

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The best thing to do is get something that he could use every day, and is something he could go out and get himself.

Like a tie, or a wallet or something to that extent.

If he works in an office maybe a statue or business card holder that he could put on his desk. He could just pass it off as a gift from his wife or a friend.

Maybe even a note that he can keep in his wallet, or a little card that fits into his wallet, or something to that extent

Not to be a preacher, just remember, what goes around comes around, if he's cheating on his wife, he may cheat on you. Or he may realize he doesnt want to be with you anymore. So just be careful.

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posted: 01/30/05 at 4:58 AM

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You should get him a beautiful painting, and whenever he looks a it he will think o you. It doesn't necesarrily have to be a portrait of you, that would be questioned alternatively, you can give him a bowl with a fish in, that is named your second name. He will look at it and think of you.

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posted: 01/30/05 at 9:22 AM

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well i would go to a dinner... since you having an affair, so the wife/hubby wont see new stuff like shirt or parfume..

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posted: 01/30/05 at 9:23 AM

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but its still a BAD idea to have AN AFFAIR....

(hope noone will see you too...)

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posted: 01/31/05 at 11:06 PM
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Thanks everyone. Loved your creative ideas, Scribbles. I know what we're doing is wrong, but I appreciate you all helping anyway. Like I said, both our situations are very strange, but I won't get into all of that. No amount of explanation makes it right anyway. Hope I can return the favor someday.

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