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How do I make him care again? posted: 11/12/04 at 7:06 AM

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Ok, maybe not caring is slightly strong.

My boyfriend has seemingly given up on impressing me. Granted, we get into fights over me paying for too much. But appearance or gift wise, it doesn't happen anymore. I'm not materialistic, but it makes me feel kind of lonely to see everyone get flowers and such.

Before we dated, he took me out for my 17 birthday (during his 5 month wait to date me), after my boyfriend had ditched me. He brought me flowers, he was dressed really nice, we went to the art museum, he took me to a nice restaurant, he took me to Comedy Sportz, and then to a nice cafe to relax.

He tried hard to impress me, buying clothes that he only wore once (I'm usually referred to as 'goth', and having a liking in those guys, he attempted it), he let me bleach his hair and dye it bright red, which somehow turned out pink the next day, he bought me a playstation 2 and Final Fantasy 10 (I'm a gamer girl), all in a matter of months.

Now I turned 18, and for my birthday, I saw him and we saw a movie and ate. It was nice, but I was hoping to at least get a card from him. I hate him spending SO much money on me, but I hoped he'd email me with something sweet or whatever, unfortunately he didnt. I've known him for a year now, do you only get pretty things after you're married??


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posted: 11/12/04 at 8:16 AM

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i THINK you guys are in the comfort zone, usually guys stop being nice or caring or trying to impress their grlfriends..

jUST BASED on my experience and friends.

Im not perfect but im beautiful

You've got to dance like nobody's watching, and love like its never going to hurt.

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